So...When are you getting Married?!! :$

So there is this new ad on TV, by Vivel Facial Scrub and Wash 3 -in-1, where in the ad starts by two chicks in the room, where one says I want a guy who is Smart,Witty and Rich...

Seriously, this is the actual mind-set todays chicks in India have. Very fucking materialistic and demanding. And to their defense they are all smart, witty and not rich but pretty! Which means their ideal and most suitable match would be a guy who is smart,witty and rich. Well, to all the bitches in favor of this kinda guy, lemme tell you this guy sure does exist, but probably has wrinkles up his ass. Only a few men in this world have such quality, but damn....women of India, they all have the same fucking choice....ok, not all, but almost all of them.  So basically the planned up routine is...first they get all career oriented, and then set high expectations. Now dats totally fucked up.

I am 33 and still single....to the Goan/community that's a big question mark on my status.

Well the usual scene is that most Goans usually fall in love and get married. the remaining chuths get arranged married. Now life is not a bed of roses and while most of the marriages do work out, some of them don't. Unfortunately I wasn't the lucky ones who found Miss Right and fell in love and eventually got married. I must say I do have some good friends that I've seen for myself, where their friendship bloomed into a serious love relationship and they got into a commitment into spending the rest of their lives together. I do envy such couples, coz even with their ups and downs they do learn to live and maintain that relationship. And without any doubt they do have their good and bad days respectively.

Anyways, back to me - Now Me being one of the very last guys of my age category, the pressure of getting married is just shooting high. First off the emotional stand off with the parents. Then every elder person around pops the question. 

I really wish I could tell them to just back the fuck off...and let me be me. Its not that I fucking dont wanna get married, Its not that I intend to be a bachelor all my life, its just that I cant fucking commit to any random girl without trusting, understanding and knowing her well. Marriage is not a game, and indeed a serious commitment involving the lives of not only two but the family members as well. 

I want to be a one-woman-man, and I always will intent to be that way. If I was a player, I'd be scoring around like crazy. But the shit is - I'm just not like that. Lately I've come to accept the fact that I could be a little choosy/picky. But the fact is I'm just looking for a companion who I know I can have a good level of understanding or otherwise its just gonna be a sad ass whining roller coaster ride which I totally wanna avoid. 

I just pray that I dont end up settling down with just anybody....but with somebody who knows me for who I am. 

Thats the main reason why lately I have distant myself from social events and gatherings.

the odds of finding a companion in Q8 are very slim. I did realize that I dont fit into these social gatherings anymore.  Simply because there are hardly any bachelors attending such places and hence I gotta listen to family matters....which is ok for a while then kinda makes u wanna leave.

I know my time is running out, so by this December....hopefully there will be a change in my life.... 

until then try shutting the fuck up, and stop with the ....So, when are you getting married - question! 

Stan out!